Aware Polyamory: a weblog about loving one or more

Aware Polyamory: a weblog about loving one or more

POLY CONS

Lest we become pollyannaish about polyamory, here are a few associated with the drawbacks of loving partners that are multiple

JEALOUSY

While additionally a nagging issue in monogamous relationships, possibilities to experience envy and FOMO tend to be more typical whenever there are numerous partners. Those not used to poly may even feel disgust or repulsion towards metamours, specially if they’ve been icked away by getting into secondhand connection with others’ fluids. Feeling jealous is an extremely normal feeling and does not mean you’re bad or otherwise not cut right out for polyamory. But, it may be extremely unpleasant to see (on both ends!) and suffering may also become a prophesy that is self-fulfilling. As Shakespeare said, “There is absolutely absolutely nothing either bad or good but thinking causes it to be therefore.” Checking out what exactly is beneath these emotions and just how we quite often unconsciously play away social narratives can usually help sort them away. “Aware Polyamory: a weblog about loving one or more”の続きを読む